Wednesday, October 31, 2007

"HI, CORNELIUS."

As the 2007 NBA season begins, I dig up (from June 1998 files) a story written by Bob Greene...

In this game when nothing matters but the swish of the net into that iron ring, a poignant story to remind us that there is more to it than just the suffering after a loss or the joy after a win. This is the 1st and maybe only article on Mr. 23:

“HI, CORNELIUS.”
By Bob Greene

I had been writing a newspaper column for almost 20 years. As part of my work I had seen some of the darkest and unhappiest aspects of human nature, and I had written about them. It was beginning to get to me.

There were nights when I would go home from work and question the very nature of humanity, and wonder if there was any answer to the remitting cruelty I was observing and writing about so often. Part of this had to do with a particular case I had been covering. The case involved one of the worst crimes I had ever encountered.

A beautiful, bright-eyed, four-year-old boy name Lattie McGee had been systematically tortured over the course of a long Chicago summer. He had been beaten, he had been starved, he had been hanged upside down in a locked and darkened closet for nights on end.

All that summer his life dwindled agonizingly away in that closet, and no one knew he was there; no one heard his muffled cries. After his death, when the police discovered what had been done to him, I wrote column after column about the people who had murdered him. So many cases of impoverished children from forgotten neighborhoods get lost in the court system. I wanted to make sure that Lattie McGee received justice, or something close to it.

With all the public interest in Lattie because of the columns, the story of his brother, whose name was Cornelius Abraham, did not receive as much attention. The same things that were done to Lattie were done to Cornelius, too. Somehow he survived. He watched his brother slowly being killed and was unable to stop the killers. Cornelius' brave testimony in court is what helped to convict them.

By the end of the trial Cornelius had just turned nine. He was a thin, extremely quiet boy; with his little brother dead and his mother and her boyfriend in prison, he was living with other relatives. The two great loves of his life were reading and basketball.

In one of the columns I had written about Lattie, I had mentioned Cornelius' passion for basketball. Steve Schanwald, a vice president of the Chicago Bulls, had read the column and left a message at my office. Though tickets to Bulls' games were without exception sold out, Schanwald said that if Cornelius would like to come to a game he would be sure there were tickets available. Jim Bigoness, the Cook County assistant state's attorney who had delicately prepared Cornelius' testimony for the trial, and I took him to the game.

To every Chicago youngster who follows basketball, the stadium was a shrine. Think of where Cornelius once was, locked up and tormented and hurt. And now he was in the stadium, about to see his first Bulls game.

We walked down a stairway, until we were in a lower-level hallway. Cornelius stood between us. Then a door opened and a man came out. Cornelius looked up, and his eyes filled with a combination of wonder and awe and total disbelief.

Cornelius tried to say something; his mouth was moving but no words would come out. He tried to speak and then the man helped out by speaking first.

"Hi, Cornelius," the man said. "I'm Michael Jordan."


Jordan knelt down and spoke quietly with Cornelius. He made some jokes and told some stories about basketball and he didn't rush. You have to understand - for a long time the only adults Cornelius had any contact with were adults who wanted to hurt and humiliate him. And now Michael Jordan was saying, "Are you going to cheer for us today? We're going to need it."

Jordan went back into the locker room to finish dressing for the game. Bigoness and I walked Cornelius back upstairs to the court. There was one more surprise waiting.

Cornelius was given a red shirt of the kind worn by the Bulls' ball boys. He retrieved balls for the players from both teams as they warmed up.

Then, as the game was about to begin, he was led to Jordan's seat on the Bulls' bench. That's where he was going to sit - right next to Jordan's seat. During the minutes of the game when Jordan was out and resting, Cornelius would be sitting with him; when Jordan was on the court, Cornelius would be saving his seat for him. At one point late in the game Jordan took a pass and sailed into the air and slammed home a basket. And there, just a few feet away, was Cornelius Abraham, laughing out loud with joy.

I wanted to thank Jordan for taking the time to be so nice to Cornelius. The meeting between them, I had learned, had been something that Jordan had volunteered for; he had been aware of the Lattie McGee case, and when he had heard that the Bulls were giving Cornelius tickets to the game, he had let it be known that he was available.

After the game, in the locker room after the last sportswriter left, Jordan got up to retrieve his gym bag and head for home. As he walked toward the door of the locker room he saw me and stopped, and I said, "I just wanted to tell you how much Cornelius appreciated what you did for him."

For a second I had the strange but undeniable impression that perhaps this was a man who didn't get thanked all that often - or at least that there were so many people endlessly lining up to beseech him for one thing or another that all he was accustomed to was the long file of faces in front of him wanting an autograph, a favor, a moment of his time, faces that would immediately be replaced by more faces with more entreaties. He stood there waiting, as if he was so used to ceaselessly being asked for things that he thought my thanks on Cornelius' behalf might be the inevitable preface to petitioning him for something else.

When I didn't say anything, he said, "That's why you came back down here?"

"Well I don't think you know how much today meant to Cornelius," I said.

"No, I'm just surprised that you came back down to tell me," he said.

"My mom would kill me if I didn't," I said, smiling.
"She tried to raise me right."

He smiled back, "Mine, too," he said.
We shook hands and I turned to leave and I heard him say,
"Do you come out to a lot of games?"

"First one," I said.

"Well, you ought to come back," he said.

END


Sunday, October 28, 2007

QUOTES Part 1

Savion (b. 2000)
"Why are they wearing underwear?"
- while watching a vintage 1970's NBA basketball game.
(April 1, 2004)

"You don't wake up anymore. Then you go to heaven".
- answer to what happens when we die.
(June 6, 2004)

"My classmate is Ma-kulit. Me? I am just kulit."
(August 18, 2004)

Nicolas (b. 2002)
"I don't want to release the balloon. It might touch the sun."
- during a purple balloon-releasing event.
(December 14, 2005)


"Please believe you."
- 'Peace be with you' greeting at mass.
(June 11, 2006)


"Daddy, did you buy us from a baby store?"
(October 22, 2006)

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

SOCCER PET

From Savion's school newsletter:
"We commemorate St. Francis of Assisi during October 4th of every year.
As we all know, St. Francis was a lover of pets as part of creation. St. Francis used to contemplate God by admiring nature created by Him.
Just like St. Francis of Assisi, the Grade 2 class also loves pets. Here are their thoughts about their pets or what kind of pet they would want to have."

Savion's "Soccer Pet" entry:
"I would want another fish, but it would be an angelfish. Its name would be David and his last name Beckham. Its size would be small like a hamster. It would be a boy. I'd teach it how to play soccer and give it its own ball and goal. I would keep it in a special aquarium. It would be fun to watch David score a goal but it would be very hard to teach him how to play soccer because there's only one person in the world who knows how to teach a fish to play soccer. And it's not me."

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

REMEMBERING LOLA LINDA

As Nicolas and Savion walked the aisles of a toy store, they chanced upon a Star Wars light saber that was purple in color. Nicolas then asked, "Lolo, can we buy the purple light saber for Lola?" The kids remembered their grandmother whose favorite color was purple. She became their Jedi Angel on October 09, 2004.

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